James was a kind man with a great sense of humor. We shared an office for years. I recall his many conversations about family. His love and caring was obvious. He will be missed.

Dear Leela Aunty , I'm so incredibly sorry to hear about James uncle. I've just heard. May uncle rest in peace and may you find courage to move on. With much love and god bless. Sangeeta Kuriakos ( Saro's daughter )

Dear family of Kurian James, Leela and from Denise Caracappa, your next door neighbor on Mander Lane. We all here next door, my family, mom, dad and brother--they all had such kind words of you James, as we called him. My mom told me if any problems, to call James next door, as I knew he would be on lookout for my elderly mom and disabled brother. Also, he shared love of plants and flowers and I have fond memories of how he enjoyed making his home beautiful and loved talking to my dad who was an expert gardener. I look at the beautiful garden next door, all kept so well, and I think of James and my dad too. In addition, please forgive I did not come to your memorial service as due to Covid, not think good idea. Leela, we stay in touch and let me know if I can help in any small way. Also, I was very touched that James, with Leela, came to my brother's funeral back in 2014 and offered support. We need more kind and gentle people like James in this world, From Denise Caracappa 15 Mander Lane,

Dearest James Uncle, You were a comforting presence in our lives, calmly listening, always full of wisdom, love, and kindness. We will miss your smile and your calming voice. But we hold close within our hearts all the sweet memories, life advice and long conversations and there you will remain forever. We love you. Rest In Peace James uncle. - Vinu, Sathya, Sneha, Dharin

Beloved James Uncle, you have touched many lives, and we, too, undoubtedly were highly fortunate to be part of those with who you shared your affection, selfless compassion, guidance, and unconditional love. I know that your smile and positive energy will always be contagious. Uncle, you effortlessly lifted our spirits just by your presence, and this to all of us will be immortal. Remembering the sweet memories --- we love you forever. - Kitta, Sindhu & Asva.

https://youtu.be/4u6bWs-ZG0o. Kunjappappan is not like a person who receive sympathy or comfort . He is a giver , not a taker

Heartfelt Condolences from Tomy Puthuparambil New jersey

We extend our sincere condolences to the entire grieving family & friends during this difficult time of loss & bereavement. May God provide His peace and comfort to each one of you. We are also comforted with the assurance that James is in a much better place and the hope that we will reunited one day with His return..With prayers - Baben/Rina - NJ

My heart is feeling loss of great friend , mentor and a brother for the last 47 years. We used to talk at least once in a month which turned into weekly recent years; Visited once in a year. My visit two weeks ago still was lingering my mind of his physical conditions. I am sure he is in a better place now. His memmories lives on in our hearts.

Sending love and strength to you all in this difficult time- our thoughts are with you. Mr James was a kind and warm man who left a legacy of love. Ami Sheth and Family

James Appachen, we miss you so much. And it hurts to know we won't be able to see you or hear your voice again. You have impacted all of our lives and are the only person I know who never had any negative thoughts about anyone. You were always supportive of us and you were always a father figure to my mom. Growing up, I've always looked up to you and always took your wise words to heart. I really wish Paul had a chance to meet you because he truly missed out on what an amazing person you were! We love you and we take comfort believing you're looking down at us with your sweet smile! Love, Alina & Paul from Houston, TX

My heart goes out to all of Kurian's family. May his memory live long in the hearts and minds of all he touched. Although I've never met him I recognize that contagious smile in Seril. Let his memories give reason to share that smile and kept the spirit and love alive. I hope this holiday you can reach out to one another (in whatever form that may be) and share memories, tears, laughs, (maybe some wine?), but most importantly love. All the best, Heidi Sending my love too

Praying for peace & comfort for James uncle & family. May the soul of our departed James uncle rest in peace, may all of our prayers help guide him on his journey to our Creator. Our love,condolence & prayers for James uncle & family, & for all of you who are gathering together to be with James uncle & family during uncle's final hours in this world. We all are blessed to have an Almighty father, who came down from heaven & gave us hope that we all can meet him again together with all who departed from us. Vinoo,Anila,Anju & Abel. Paluthara,Plano.

My heartfelt condolences to the family. May God Almighty give you strength in this difficult time. I will always remember his sense of humor and contagious smile. I will never forget his love, dedication, and care for our patients. May his soul rest in peace. He will be greatly missed by the Pilgrim family.

Our dearest Kunjappappan. Our most youngest uncle . He was a tall stature in all aspects. Calm, patience , generous and lot to describe . He studied in Trivandrum University college and lot of friends circle there even now . Later he moved to New York but still have hood connections with them and I am one of a beneficiary of that good connections of people in power . I remember while practicing as lawyer in Pathanamthitta We had a client who belongs to Sabarimala Vavar family and there was a dispute within the family regarding the control of the mosque . It's very hard to get a court order instantly . At that Kunjappappans friend was the Highest police official and he knew me and I sought his help the eject the opponent of my client from the mosque . All his visit to India during our childhood days was a festive season for us . He brings lot of stuffs which were not available at that time . After I came here in 2010 it was he who took me almost every places in New England , NYC, Long Island , NJ, PA etc and I was watching the roads and because of that reason I dont even need GPS for covering these areas . He brought me a car which I am still using and It saved me from lot of accidents and Police interference . He was a versatile personality having knowledge about almost all thinks and I used to take his advise for almost everything . Not only but all our cousins . He helped every body who comes to New York by taking them to all places of attraction . We lost a hope for ever and ever and our damage is irreparable

My dearest Uncle, I miss you so badly. I don't know how I would have survived without your advice and support over the years. I am happy that you are at peace with the Lord. We love you so much.

Dear James Uncle, You will be dearly missed by everyone who knows you. Rest In Peace James uncle. You leave behind sweet memories of that smiling face, unique to your personality. Condolences & prayers to the family from everyone at Pilgrim Psychiatric Center which was your second home. Thank you for everything you have done for your family, friends, coworkers, patients & strangers.

My heart hurts, knowing I won't get to physically see your smile when I visit home. But, I know your smiling on all of us now, and it makes my pain just a little less. I love you, dad.

My heartfelt condolences. I will always remember how sweet and welcoming you were to all of us.

Still remember the days we used to get together to experience foods of different countries when the children were little. The children used to play together while adults enjoyed the conversations. You were so heartbroken when you lost your niece Helena. We are so sorry to lose you so early. Our prayers are with you and your family Leelamma, Abe n Cyril. Our heartfelt condolences to you all